Hello, I just read your posting regarding the Twilight matter. It's okay to be torn between feminist ideas and domestic ones, as well as feeling dependent on your husband. A lot of times that happens when we have young children, and I tend to think that's a biological urge. I hope Adam is a great man for you. I hope he admires you and if you start to grow in different ways, he'll be open to that growth himself. 23 is a young age. You have many changes ahead of you and from your quite open writing, I think you'll be up to the challenge.