I still cringe every time I hear a woman say "I'm not a feminist but..." It makes me think that many women believe that if they take up that title, it puts them in the bull's eye for being spit on.

i don't know about other women, but i do not like labels/titles. of course i believe in the inherent strength and dignity of women and will stand up against those who put women down. however, i felt no need to scream I'M A FEMINIST! one does not need to wear a label in order to identify with the thought and actions you speak of. just saying. :)