Oh I absolutely do not judge mothers who can't breastfeed. And I do my damnedest not to judge those who do of their own choice. Mothering is FRAUGHT with judgment. But I will always support and encourage mothers to breastfeed.

Several women on my flist were unable to breastfeed and a couple deliberately chose to use formula. None of them are going to be shocked by my posts. I don't think any of them 'didn't try hard enough'(which some of them have been told, boo) or are bad mothers.