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theatokos ([personal profile] theatokos) wrote2007-05-08 09:57 am

Honor killings

I made the mistake of watching the cell phone video of the stoning to death of a 17 year old Iraqi girl. It was an "honor killing." As Twisty Faster posted:

The Daily Mail and other reports title the story more or less like this: “Teenage girl was stoned to death for loving the wrong boy.” Implying that the girl, however much sympathy we have for her, nevertheless brought the savagery on herself.

I knew better than to watch it. I think there are more than one? I've gotten emails, seen various posts, but finally went back and clicked on one. Stupid, stupid, stupid. I did not need to see a mostly dead girl, with her skirt up around her waist, bloodied, surrounded by a circle of men yelling and picking up huge rocks and hurling them on her.

Do I cry? Do I throw up?

Men are scary. How can women thrive, much less live, in a place where making a personal choice violates some other man's claim to property and he can, with a little help from his friends, kill you? In broad daylight. And no one will stop them.

And people roll their eyes when I talk about feminism and patriarchy.

[identity profile] erinya.livejournal.com 2007-05-08 05:40 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, my god.

I know these things happen, but. Some days the world is just...not an okay place, not even a little bit, and it's a good thing I don't own a shotgun.

[identity profile] ewigweibliche.livejournal.com 2007-05-08 05:44 pm (UTC)(link)
One of many horrific parts of the short video is that there are several other cellphones obviously video-ing the stoning.

...

It's heart stopping. Mind boggling. Stomach turning.

[identity profile] erinya.livejournal.com 2007-05-08 06:04 pm (UTC)(link)
And no one doing a thing.

No, I can't even think about it.

[identity profile] eelsalad.livejournal.com 2007-05-08 07:09 pm (UTC)(link)
Horrible. Horrible.

May she rest peacefully. May her killers face justice. May we all strive for a better world where love is safe.

[identity profile] ewigweibliche.livejournal.com 2007-05-08 07:22 pm (UTC)(link)
Just for a burst of good news: you're getting married! Soon! Yay!

[identity profile] miss-ogyny.livejournal.com 2007-05-08 07:56 pm (UTC)(link)
if you want to watch something funny, http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FIeZWbQGrqY

it's amy winehouse completly drunk an hilarious on a uk panel show...there are three parts but this first part will direct you to the other two, obviously.

[identity profile] ewigweibliche.livejournal.com 2007-05-09 05:11 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh my goodness, you've just ruined my work day! This is hee-laaarious. I love Amy Winehouse even more now.

Thank you for brightening up my day.
Maybe I should post depressing things more regularly and you can continue to cheer me up and sabotage my professional life with videos like these.