Actually, I would love to talk with you and your man about this sometime over drinks. Why is that so so many people in positions of leadership in the arts (ie, directors of all stripes and media) seem to have very little ability to communicate effectively and/or to organize??

As someone who has lead/directed singers and gets paid to organize, I know this is not impossible. My skills make me increasingly reluctant to waste my time with groups that can't respect my time or intelligence.