Well, we're nursery free (no room and plan to sleep with the baby) and I'm not much for the gendered clothing/design themes. At first I didn't want to know. Didn't see the point. But Adam wanted to know, so then I got on board. Now, I feel so strongly that it's a girl, that I need to know. If it pops out boy it'll be a huge mental shift. Plus, I want to call it by a name and pronoun (damned English for not having a personal gender neutral pronoun!). I think it'll help with bonding and whatnot. I already sing silly songs to it. Hee.