I value your opinion here, even if you're not a parent! Never having been a boy I know there are bound to be times when I just won't "get it" when raising Bennett. Of course, he could grow up to be a show tune singing diva, who knows?
I plan to be pretty involved in what my kid/s watch and read. More so about the watching. We don't own a tv, but love media - my issue is often with the advertising! Right now that's more avoidable. I hope to encourage dialog - although I'm a hot head about feminist issues, so no doubt I'll traumatize B with that.
I was a girl that LOVED/S to hit people. Sadly, I was a bully to my little sister. I think some of us are just born more volatile than others, male or female - boys are just encouraged and allowed more than girls. I asked these questions of our male nanny and he also said that he struggled with his parents getting too involved in the fun play and his socialising. Even though he wasn't keen on it, sometimes you just needed to play what your friends wanted to play! This is good information.
I also know that I can't (and I don't want to) control everything in my son's life. But this seems particularly tricky to me.
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Date: 2009-02-10 03:30 am (UTC)I plan to be pretty involved in what my kid/s watch and read. More so about the watching. We don't own a tv, but love media - my issue is often with the advertising! Right now that's more avoidable. I hope to encourage dialog - although I'm a hot head about feminist issues, so no doubt I'll traumatize B with that.
I was a girl that LOVED/S to hit people. Sadly, I was a bully to my little sister. I think some of us are just born more volatile than others, male or female - boys are just encouraged and allowed more than girls. I asked these questions of our male nanny and he also said that he struggled with his parents getting too involved in the fun play and his socialising. Even though he wasn't keen on it, sometimes you just needed to play what your friends wanted to play! This is good information.
I also know that I can't (and I don't want to) control everything in my son's life. But this seems particularly tricky to me.