I wasn't going to say anything but.... I agree totally with Readthisanweep. Bennett is no longer an infant. He needs to know boundaries. You are not an extension of his needs and fulfillment as a mother is with an infant. He is his own person. He needs his own space. The longer you wait to give him his bed and wean him the harder it is going to be. Change is never easy. Right now HIS bed IS your bed. And Your Breast is HIS comfort. He is totally in charge. You are the adult and the parent. You really need to reclaim your space and your body. Good luck and Blessings
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Date: 2009-05-31 03:07 pm (UTC)I agree totally with Readthisanweep.
Bennett is no longer an infant. He needs to know boundaries. You are not an extension of his needs and fulfillment as a mother is with an infant.
He is his own person. He needs his own space.
The longer you wait to give him his bed and wean him the harder it is going to be. Change is never easy. Right now HIS bed IS your bed. And Your Breast is HIS comfort. He is totally in charge.
You are the adult and the parent. You really need to reclaim your space and your body.
Good luck and Blessings