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This might elicit a "so what? you used to do that all the time." But I haven't since I had Bennett. I've cooked two honest to goodness meals since giving birth (Annie's mac n cheese with chard doesn't count). Tonight I made chicken enchiladas verdes. I got good meat from a butcher. I roasted the chilies and tomatillos and made my own salsa verde, made the chicken with my own homemade chicken broth. YUM. SO GOOD.
This meal did not come with out a price. It is *very* hard to manoeuver in a kitchen with a newborn. Benn was content in a bouncy chair thing for about 20 minutes and then he started to fuss. I was in the middle of chopping onions, their juice all over my hands. I had to finish and wash my hands before getting to him. By that time he was screaming. So I stuck him in a sling and, as per usual, he passed right out. Trying to negotiate the knives, fridge, stove, sauces, and oven with a baby on me was hard. And.... I hate to admit this, but... leaning into the oven to rotate the pan with the chilies and tomatillos Benn let out one cry. I thought it was the heat in the face. I backed out quickly and held his head in my hand. Later, during the meal, with him on the boob, I realized I had burnt a small patch on his head. Oh god. I'm a horrible mother! I relieve my guilty conscience by remembering that he wasn't that upset (he didn't cry more than that one cry), that I didn't break the skin, and his little blister will pass.
(I'm not really worried about being a bad mother. How many stories have I heard about kids rolling off tables or falling over in carseats or some such awful ocurrence? Some how we all grow up just fine.)
This meal did not come with out a price. It is *very* hard to manoeuver in a kitchen with a newborn. Benn was content in a bouncy chair thing for about 20 minutes and then he started to fuss. I was in the middle of chopping onions, their juice all over my hands. I had to finish and wash my hands before getting to him. By that time he was screaming. So I stuck him in a sling and, as per usual, he passed right out. Trying to negotiate the knives, fridge, stove, sauces, and oven with a baby on me was hard. And.... I hate to admit this, but... leaning into the oven to rotate the pan with the chilies and tomatillos Benn let out one cry. I thought it was the heat in the face. I backed out quickly and held his head in my hand. Later, during the meal, with him on the boob, I realized I had burnt a small patch on his head. Oh god. I'm a horrible mother! I relieve my guilty conscience by remembering that he wasn't that upset (he didn't cry more than that one cry), that I didn't break the skin, and his little blister will pass.
(I'm not really worried about being a bad mother. How many stories have I heard about kids rolling off tables or falling over in carseats or some such awful ocurrence? Some how we all grow up just fine.)
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Date: 2008-07-23 04:45 am (UTC)The baby does not go in the oven despite the sleep deprivation ;)
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Date: 2008-07-23 04:51 am (UTC)Mine came out in sleep walking and falling asleep at work at my desk (literally)
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Date: 2008-07-23 08:06 am (UTC)Burnt hair smells and seems to linger. But, does that count for baby hair? Everything about them is so sweet...I imagine Benn's burnt hair would smell something like roasted marshmellows..
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Date: 2008-07-23 08:05 am (UTC)As much as I don't agree with baking small children, at least he still has more hair than Adam!
I remember when my sister Jade was a few months she fell of the couch, she just rolled right off. At first I was mortified and knew my mother would kill me. Nope, she just stacked some pillows around the couch and made sure it was ultra cushy, just incase my sister decided to do some more rolling when my eyes were else where. It happens, they live...and forget ;x
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Date: 2008-07-23 11:41 am (UTC)I got to cook dinner last night too--a rare event in my house also. It's so nice to eat vegetables that weren't pre-frozen.
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Date: 2008-07-23 05:08 pm (UTC)And of course once they are sitting, the bottom cupboard filled with smaller pots, lids and tupperware creates hours of play fun while mom plays chef.
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Date: 2008-07-24 03:11 am (UTC)I'm so exciting about the Grape!